Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Parents- cant live with em cant live without em

O.K. i know parents are a touchy subject with us all but honestly we need them. i mean thanks to them we are living and reading this blog! how many of you think you could honestly live and support your current lifestyle with out the help of your parents? I know that i couldnt. in fact if it werent for them i wouldnt be writing this on my new laptop, have a house to live in or food to eat. I know this for sure at one point or another we will fight with our parents- thats not bad but we need to realize that they really do have our best intsrest in hand. I know from first hand experience that they really do but rules and regulations down to help us not make the same mistakes they made at our age. so what does God say about parents. this simple statement: honor thy mother and father. with in reason obsislously if they want you to break the law dont. but with in legal limits you have to... if they say you cant go see this concert then obey that and dont go do it. if you do do what they have said no to then take your consequences like a women or man and deal with it! I know i know obeying ur parents is harder than just doing it but i will give you some advice and this is how to solve problems with anyone parents inclued PRAY for them. your relationship will soon change. I have had my fair share of arguments and fights with my parents but if i prayed for them and started to see things from thier point of view and i know understand how bratty and downright abusive i was sometimes. and one other piece of advice it will get better the older you get. you might even try these:
- do something for them
- do something like our chores without begin asked
-compliment them
-take them out to dinner
- cook for them
- pray for them

try these and i know with in time things will get better. and as always if your parents are in any way abusive GET OUT OF THE HOUSE, RELATIONSHIP and REPORT it to the police or trusted adult

love ya all

Sunday, March 21, 2010

Truth

Ok so this issue is a big one and in order for me to go on with this blog this needs to be said: everything on this blog is 100% truth from my life and the lives of my closest friends! you know how the old saying goes the truth hurts! well i cant say i am sorry if my story or my friends story hurt becasue this whole blog would be pointless if no one learned from our mistakes...thats the reason this exist. no one wants a 30 yr old or older to tell em what to do but for some reason 13 -19 yr olds feel like thier friends know all the answers so i am here as a friend to give you Godly advice on topics that i struggled with from 13-19 and if i didnt struggle with it then my friends will help me. so the first question is what is truth? how do you define it? it seems like the obisovus answer is truth is not falsehoods which is true. but what is it really? heres what www.dictionary.com says: confomity with fact or relaity. ok so the next question is how does one go about beging truthful? I will say this till the day i die: BE your self. if you feel uncomfortable saying it then dont. if you dont have proof to back up your claim then dont go there... its like science if you dont have proof to prove you found the square root of pi then no one will believe you. i know you have all heard the boy who cried wolf... he cried wolf so often that no one believed him when it really happend. my advice: dont cry wolf unless its truth.

the bible says : the truth will set you free. and girls ( guys too) its the truth.
the freedom you feel when ur honest is amazing!

Monday, March 8, 2010

What's Tell Her all about?

Hey girls and guys too!
So I bet your wondering what Tell Her... is all about? Tell Her is my response to all the damage and crap that a teenage girl hears about herself... you know things like your fat,ugly, that's not good enough, i like you better when..., you need to be a size 2 with big boobs,.... Girls there is so much more in life that that!... Tell her will cover topics from sex to relationships with boys, how to deal with parents during the teen years and fashion a girls best friend next to a diamond ring of course.... but Tell Her will cover all these topics with a Godly perspective. Why a Godly perspective because GOD has a lot to say about these topics in the Bible. And occasionally Tell Her might have just a blog posting from people who inspire me, who have helped me and gotten me thru my teen years with a few scars from not listing to their stories.

Girls and guys too- We are WORTH something!!! Tell Her is launching off March 8 2010...
Ok so every two or three weeks I will post a new Tell Her... or a Tell Her Shes... or a Tell Her About.. there all the same thing its just what will work best with whatever the topic is... and Girls and guys if you want to email me about topics you want me to write about let me know!